The Extraordinary Marriage


You Love your spouse but...


  • You're feeling distant and unappreciated
  • The two of you can't agree on anything
  • He seems uninterested and doesn't listen to you
  • Overcontrol and tempers flare daily



Does this sound like you?



The People, music, and the

wedding photos were


but as soon as the

honeymoon was over...



You're back in your own home, 

and all of those little

annoyances and differences,


you didn't even know were there,


start to add up.   

Real life starts with...

the division of responsibilities, work,

and paying the bills. 


Before you know it,

you're constantly fighting

   and your relationship is

in a shambles.



It's normal to feel overwhelmed,


But it's important to remember that.....

these struggles should only be temporary.


Don't let them get out of hand.


With the right tools and techniques,

you can get past the things that

are dividing you and

start enjoying

 one another again. 




Are you ready to Finally understand...


Your Spouse clearly,

dissolving conflict and



so that you


LOVE him again??



You'll find ways to build a fresh new,

solid, more light-hearted, rewarding, 

relationship, here!

A message on marriage from Connie - Listen Here

Why doesn't he understand me?

Ultimately we are.......

 Looking to be heard, understood, and appreciated by our spouse, but sometimes we're literally not speaking the same language.

This is when we....

Need to seek help in unveiling the root cause.  Often we bring baggage from our past into the present and unload on those we care about the most.

Resulting in.....

Hurt feelings, discord in our home, and...

Avoidable wrong choices causing failed marriages, divided families, and a lifetime of disappointment.



But it doesn't have to be that way!

You can change your circumstances by discovering why you're not getting along and learn techniques to repair it.

How To Save Your Marriage When It Seems Impossible

Stop the frustration, misunderstandings and energy drainers, so that you can  feel the Love again

When You Work With Me,

You'll Follow the Triple R Method


Recognize, Resolve, & Reset 


  1.  You'll Recognize & Identify key marital challenges you and your partner are facing and get the support you need.
  2. Resolve and Melt away conflict as you gain understanding.
  3. You'll use communication and connection secrets most don't know, and begin to reset your life together. 

 Don't wait till there's trouble!

Picture your relationship like an engine.......

 If things start running rough or stalling out,

You need a tune-up in order to maintain peak performance.

Marriage is a constantly adjustment.

Make your marriage extraordinary

Begin Here

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Begin here with 7 steps for a happier healthier marriage and find your love language. 

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Move past your relationship limiters and quickly gain more connection.

3 Mistakes Couples Make that Push their Spouse Away


After more than four decades of marriage...

and a family full of kids, grandkids, laughter and tears - I know what it's like to struggle with the stress and frustration that can come along with loving people.

     Too often couples get caught up in the everyday worries, losing sight of their original love connection as they become bogged down by disagreements over money, children, or the inability to see anything except their own side of things.

Your life experiences and unique personalities will bring you together or drive a wedge between you, but they don't have to.  Sometimes a few small adjustments are all it takes to get back on track and reignite the enthusiasm for life and each other.

     Through my own experience rooted in faith--which teaches me there is something good within all people - I help guide you back towards your partner, to rekindle that spark once shared between you!

Whether you are engaged, married, or even still searching for answers after a divorce, you'll find proven strategies here through private coaching and a new approach called...

 "Communication Secrets for an Extraordinary Marriage", where you'll breakthrough the barriers that are holding your marriage captive and rebuild what you once had.


The Relationship Transformer,

Connie Durham

Begin Here Free -

"A Recipe for a Happy Healthy Marriage".



#1 Make sure your spouse knows that they are number one.  (sometimes the kids wiggle into this spot)  Read more here...


Here's what people are saying.....


"I loved learning about all of the different personality types, even my husband (who honestly didn't want to do the class) LOVED it once it started!  We still yell out our personality types when they really start to show themselves! "

Nikki Duncan
Owner - My Secretary


We use it everyday! 

 In how we communicate with each and how we parent.  Knowing our differences helps us to be better communicators.  I’ve learned that my husband just needs me to be direct and say what I’m thinking or feeling vs keeping it bottled up and then exploding.  We try to take those differences and use them to balance us out.

Amee Davison - Realtor 

I though the program was very informative

"Kelly said, I did the DISC program several years ago and it helps doing it again, as years have changed the circumstances in life i.e. retirement, work, empty nest, adult children now married, etc.  It's wonderful to have different types of people in this world and know how to relate based on their personality."

Kelly Baker
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The Extraordinary Marriage Vlog

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