Cultivating Connection, Understanding, & Lasting LOVE for an Extraordinary Marriage!
How to be a better spouse and understand your Lover.
You're in the Right Place!
Welcome to The Extraordinary Marriage,
...a sanctuary for
spouses and married couples
seeking to
rediscover the joys
and deepen the
bonds
within their relationship.
We offer resources designed to enhance
communication,
understanding, and
connection
between you and your spouse.
Figuring it out!
Disposition, Values, and Experiences = Communication Style
We all communicate differently!
Are you finding it hard to connect
with your spouse?
Do you often feel misunderstood,
frustrated, or isolated?
You're not alone.
Many couples struggle
with communication issues
every day, leading to . . .
- Frustration: Constant misunderstandings can build up frustration and resentment.
- Wrong Assumptions: Misinterpreting intentions and actions can lead to wrong conclusions.
- High Emotions and Tempers: Frequent conflicts can escalate emotions, resulting in heated arguments.
- Hurt Feelings: Words and actions, when misunderstood, can deeply hurt your partner.
- Isolation: Feeling misunderstood can make both partners feel emotionally distant and isolated.
You Don't Have to Keep Living Like This
These challenges are all too common, but they don't have to define your marriage. Through my four decades of experience and expertise in human behavior styles, I’ve learned that understanding each other's communication styles is key to transforming your relationship
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You'll find valuable insights into:
- Self-awareness: Learn more about your own communication style and how it affects your interactions.
- Spouse Understanding: Gain a deeper understanding of your spouse's style to improve empathy and connection.
- Proactive Growth: Discover strategies to proactively address challenges and build the best marriage possible.
- Solutions for Challenges: If you're facing difficulties, you will find practical answers and solutions here.
Start Your Journey Towards
a Stronger Marriage
By understanding and adapting to each other's communication styles, you can reduce conflicts, enhance your connection, and create a fulfilling, harmonious relationship.
The path to a better marriage begins with knowledge and proactive effort. Explore our resources and take the first step today.
Premiering in February
ReDISCover
Your Spouse Workshop
Join the Wait List
Find out more HERE
Did you know that a lot of marital challenges stem from unresolved 
childhood issues?
Understanding and addressing these can lead to more harmonious relationships.
Here are five common challenges couples face
when childhood trauma is at play.
Communication Barriers - Unexpressed emotions and defense mechanisms from the past can hinder open dialogue.
Trust Issues - Past trauma may contribute to difficulty in trusting your partner, impacting intimacy.
Parenting Conflicts - Differing parenting styles, shaped by childhood experiences, can lead to friction.
Fear of Abandonment or Rejection - These fears can lead to dependency or pushing partners away.
Difficulty in Expressing Needs - Childhood wounds might make it hard to voice desires, leading to unmet expectations.
By having conversations that uncover
and address these issues,
you can overcome marital trouble spots
and enhance your relationship.
Don't let childhood trauma reck your marriage!
This is just one of the many causes
Here's what people are saying.....
LOVED it!
We . . . still yell out our personality types when they really start to show!"
Nikki
We use it everyday!
I’ve learned to be direct and say what I’m thinking or feeling vs keeping it bottled up.
Amee
He listens more...
Knowing that I need to talk it out and we give each other space when we need to cool off.
Melissa
Say "I do" to a marriage that's always in bloom.
Imagine how amazing it would feel embracing each other's differences rather than feeling at odds with them. Listen to...
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Weekly sessions help you identify your unique differences with your spouse and find effective solutions for mutual understanding, more joy, and romance, in your marriage.
The Workshop
Are you tired of the blame game, emotional outburst, and constant misunderstandings? I have answers for you. Join the WAIT LIST and be a part of the Premier Workshop
Live Datenight
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Hi I'm Connie, The host of...
"The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast".
Please listen to the personal message below
and see if you relate,
then take advantage of the Free Workshop below
and Identify the problem.
Begin living with more peace and joy...
Starting Today!
The quest for understanding, is where every notable journey begins, and yours is no different.
We're peeling back the layers to confront the truth behind the challenges that are common in marriage. Recognize then resolve.
Are you ready to ignite a sea of positive change in your most cherished bond?
Watch it today
After more than four decades of marriage...
and a family full of kids, grandkids, laughter and tears - I know what it's like to struggle with the stress and frustration that can come along with loving people.
Too often couples get caught up in the everyday worries, losing sight of their original love connection as they become bogged down by disagreements over money, children, or the inability to see anything except their own side of things.
Your life experiences and unique personalities will bring you together or drive a wedge between you, but they don't have to.
Sometimes a few small adjustments are all it takes to get back on track and reignite the enthusiasm for life and each other.
Through education, study, and my own experience rooted in faith... which teaches me there is something good within all people - I help guide you back towards your partner, to rekindle that spark once shared between you! Even one spouse, educated and enlightened, will make a difference by uncovering the root causes of adversity and ways to resolve them.
Whether you are engaged, married, or even still searching for answers after a divorce, you'll find proven strategies & methods here through private coaching & or my signature OnDemand program "Communication Secrets for an Extraordinary Marriage", where you'll breakthrough the barriers that are holding your marriage captive and rebuild what you once had.
The Relationship Transformer,
Connie Durham
"A Recipe for a Happy Healthy Marriage".
"Dont wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect."
"There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. So what then? With each step you take, you will grow stronger and stronger, more and more skilled, more and more self-confident and more and more successful."
- Mark Victor Hansen
Connie's Video Blogs
"Change is Inevitable. Growth is Optional." Maxwell
ReDISCover your Spouse Workshop
***Join the WAIT LIST***
Benefits of the Workshop
- Understand the Root of Conflict
Learn how your personality and behavior influence communication, expectations, and potential conflicts in your marriage.
- Build Empathy and Connection
Discover how to transform misunderstandings into opportunities for deeper understanding and unity.
- Tailored to Your Personality Style
Uncover how your unique personality impacts your patience, triggers, strengths, and what truly matters to you.
- Break the Cycle of Frustration
Stop assuming your spouse’s actions are intentional irritations and gain clarity on why they behave the way they do.
- Foster Joy and Unity
Shift your perspective, rebuild trust, and create a marriage filled with more harmony and happiness.
- Designed for Married Couples and Individuals
Perfect for anyone looking to strengthen their marriage, whether together or seeking personal insight into their role in the relationship.
- Practical and Insightful Guidance
Explore expert-driven strategies to improve communication and resolve recurring challenges with compassion.
Overall, the "ReDISCover Your Spouse" program offers...
Valuable insights and practical tools for couples looking to strengthen their marriage.
By understanding how personality styles can impact relationships, individuals can learn to communicate more effectively and avoid common conflicts.
This program is a beneficial resource for any couple looking to build a strong, loving, and lasting marriage. Remember, regular communication and effort are key to keeping a happy and healthy relationship.
So why wait? Start rediscovering your spouse today and see the positive impact it can have on your marriage!
So, take the first step towards building a stronger and happier marriage by JOINING the Wait List for "ReDISCover Your Spouse" program today! With commitment and open communication, couples can create a fulfilling and joyful marriage that lasts a lifetime.
No Obligation, learn more in January. Give feedback and receive a discount offer for being the first group through the new OnDemand Workshop.
Resources I Find Helpful
**Fresh Insights Intro Offer - One Hour with Connie
5 Parenting Styles and their Effects in Life! (Sprouts video)
The Power of Emotional Freedom with Dr Cain & Brendon Burchard
Carl Jung’s Theory on Introverts, Extraverts, and Ambiverts (Sprouts video)
*No-Problem Parenting Podcast - Jaci & Connie
The Whole Child: Ackermann’s 4 Natural Forces of Development (Sprouts video)
*How Thoughts Influence your Success - Michael Hyatt & Amy Porterfield
