Learning Personalities for More Harmony in Marriage

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Conflict Erodes Connection

When communication breaks down and misunderstandings linger, the love and intimacy in your relationship may slip through your fingers.

ReDISCover Your Spouse - OnDemand Workshop

Hi I'm Connie, I've been married over 40 years,

and I believe there are 3 areas

in life that determine what kind of marriage you have.

The First is believing in God and letting that guide you to be your best self.

Second is, you only know what you know. That is what you learned growing up. What kind of relationship did your parents have? Is yours much the same?

Third, many couples are divided by their DNA... with that I mean, how they react and respond to the things around them. Are you and your spouse simply on different pages, unable to relate to one another's perspective?

I can't change your beliefs, I can't change how you were raised, but I can help you understand what's dividing you and your spouse, why it's happening, and how to turn that miscommunication around, guiding you to find the love and support you desire in your relationship.

I believe one hour with me can open up new avenues of hope. What do you have to lose?

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Unresolved conflicts can profoundly erode a couple's sense of unity and purpose, often leading to a fractured identity that affects both partners.

When misunderstandings and differing perspectives remain unaddressed, they create an invisible barrier that separates the couple, fostering feelings of isolation and resentment.

This disconnection undermines the shared narrative that couples build together, causing them to question their bond and their individual roles within the partnership.

The philosophical implications of this estrangement are significant; it challenges the foundational belief that love is a unifying force, instead positioning it as a source of division.

By failing to confront these issues, couples risk not only their relationship but also their individual identities, as they become defined by conflict rather than connection.

Ultimately, the unresolved issues become a lens through which they view their partnership, leading to a diminished sense of self and an unclear sense of purpose.

Do you find...

Navigating relationship challenges feels exhausting and unmanageable
Communication breakdowns leave you frustrated
Hurt feelings disrupt intimacy and trust
Misunderstanding breeds resentment over time
The love you once had feels lost
Ignoring differences prolongs relationship struggles

ReBUILD your connection with expert guidance

With over 40 years of marital experience and a compassionate approach rooted in biblical principles, I'm here to help you navigate the complexities of your relationship and rediscover the love you once had.

Kick things off by yourself, and your spouse may join in time.

Host of The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast

I help spouses and couples that are dedicated to making their marriage the BEST, by sharing weekly insights in navigating marriage and fostering connection.

Years of Coaching Women

I understand the unique daily challenges of marriage, motherhood, and life's responsibilities.

Certified in Human Behavior Styles

Get ready to tame the complaints, tempers, and moodiness, so that you can simply enjoy your life together.

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“The biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand. We listen to reply.” – Stephen R. Covey

" I’ve learned that Evan just needs me to be direct and say what I’m thinking or feeling vs keeping it bottled up and then exploding. Amee"

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Rediscover Love and Understanding

Experience deeper connection through

self-awareness and guidance.

Gain insights into your behavior styles and reactions.
Build empathy by understanding each other's past experiences.
Enhance communication and reduce conflicts.
Strengthen your relationship with biblical principles and proven techniques.

Understand Temperaments, Desires, and Overcome Miscommunications

3 Simple Steps to Reconnect and Strengthen Your Marriage

Unlock a deeper connection with your spouse as you navigate your differences and build a win/win mindset.

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1st - Tune into weekly insights and find ways you can strengthen your relationship.

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2nd - Uncover what uniquely keeps you and your spouse connected and thriving! It's easier than you think!

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3rd - Become a Savvy Spouse as you discover the knowledge and empowerment of how you can truly understand your spouse.

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Every Relationship Faces Challenges.

Let us guide you through them.

Imagine navigating the complexities of your marriage with a clearer understanding of each other's perspectives.

You have the power to take the first step, and as your understanding deepens, there's a good chance your spouse will join you. Your actions can create change.

At The Extraordinary Marriage, we empower couples like you to take charge of your own love story. You’ll bridge the gaps caused by differing personality styles and past experiences, and learn to interpret each other's behaviors and thoughts without taking them personally. You’ll do this through our unique "ReDISCover your Spouse Workshop,"

With over 40 years of marital experience and a foundation rooted in biblical values, we empower you to function as a cohesive team.

Start your journey with our free gift, "The Chemistry of Lasting Love" guide, and take the first steps towards a renewed, vibrant relationship.

Grow Together, Love Forever

Say "I do" to a marriage that's always in bloom.

Imagine how amazing it would feel embracing each other's differences rather than feeling at odds with them.

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"Dont wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect."

"There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. So what then? With each step you take, you will grow stronger and stronger, more and more skilled, more and more self-confident and more and more successful."

- Mark Victor Hansen