Help for Broken Marriages

Well friend,

What causes a broken marriage?

• Selfishness
• Literally being unaware of what a loving relationship looks like.
• Assuming your spouse needs the same things as you do.
• Extreme personality differences that crush one another.

How do you find healing?

• Pray together
• Discuss what feels broken?
  • This means two-way peaceful conversations
  • This means listening as much as you talk
  • This means both of you are open to the NEEDS of the other
  • Commit long term to learning and growing together.

How do you stay on track for the long haul?

• Learn to give more than you take - I call this making loving, helpful, deposits into your relationship rather than withdrawals like yelling, not keeping your word, or gaslighting your spouse.
• Find what your spouse needs most from you and practice filling those needs.  Download my free resource, "The Chemistry of Lasting Love" and take ACTION by discussing and following through daily, weekly, monthly, until you succeed.
• Take advantage of my ONDEMAND workshop "ReDISCover Your Spouse" and find the niggly uglies that are constantly causing frustration, hurt, and anger in your relationship because you are soooo... different.  Turn these into unity and admiration... when you understand them.

Hi, I'm Connie Durham, married 46 years, and successful families are my passion.  Every marriage has its different seasons of success and challenge, excitement and boredom, hurt and healing.  Marriage is not a destination but a Journey of personal growth as you continually ride the waves of change.

Begin by Downloading "The Chemistry of Lasting Love" Free and working through it with your spouse.   www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/5NEEDS