Personalities in Marriage: Understanding Your Unique Blend

My husband and I are able to laugh at many a situation! 

We've kept that romantic love rolling along through the years by having fun together, letting go of the small irritations, encouraging one another and simply treating each other in such a way that... WE LIKE EACH OTHER!

No, we are not just alike.  We don't have to be.  In fact, the things that make us unique are what keeps us on the up and up.  We were just talking yesterday about how he's a walking encyclopedia, I know... you may not recognize that... let's say.... he's my google.  An Encyclopedia is a book that contained every bit of info about people, politics, history... and such... so that you could LOOK UP what you needed for your school report as a kid.

The are 4 basic personality styles and my husband and I have different combinations of those four styles.  They are called D-I-S-C... each of the letters stands for a particular personality style.

Neither of us has very much of the D - This style is very straight forward and to the point.  They make quick decisions of which they don't like to be questioned.  The I - describes fun loving, light hearted, people that love being around others, of which we both have but I have a bit more.  That means I'm animated and a bit goofy.  He is highest in the S - which means that he says YES to me and everyone else, that ask anything of him.  He doesn't have to think about it... he just says yes. Both he and I only have a small amount of the C - of which is very detailed, analytical, and usually likes alone time more than anything else.

Luckily our personality styles are a compatible blend because when they are not, fireworks explode.  You get caught up in defense mode, dodging the hot embers and it happens so much, you can figure out why.  This means it keeps on happening.

Because the different personality's have different needs, opposites don't have a chance.  They demonstrate the needs THEY have, thus not filling the needs of their spouse, that created continuous Romantic Love for them in the beginning.  What attracted them, now divides them unless they figure out how to meet in the middle.  This is what DISC helps with.  You begin to understand WHY your spouse THINKS the way they do. 

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I'm Connie, and I'm here to cultivate connection and lasting love, for an extraordinary marriage.

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