12 Simple Ways to Enrich Your Marriage

Men are often oblivious when it comes to their wife's frustration and disconnect in marriage. Did you know that 60% of moms say they feel overwhelmed and underappreciated? Maybe there are some dads feeling the same way.

We all get overwhelmed with our own personal responsibilities, forgetting to look at both sides of the coin.  Improvements begin with awareness, then willingness to do something different than you've been doing, then the big one... take ACTION!!

This is where most couples fail.  They put it off... and put it off... suddenly one day the kids are gone, and they have nothing in common and don't even care for one another's company.

Begin with 5 Conversation Starters that improve your awareness of one other's needs, which will improve your communication.  Then write down the 12 ways to enrich your marriage. ♥️ Woohoo!  You are on your way to a sweeter relationship!

Conversation Starters

1. "What’s one thing I can do this week to make you feel more loved?"

   • This question shows you're listening and you care. 

2. "What’s one thing you wish I understood better about your daily life?"

   • There are two types of people, those who voice it all... and those who keep it all canned up inside.  Let the conversation begin.

3. "How can we create more quality time together?"

   • If you don't plan it... it's not going to happen.

4. "What’s one thing you’d like to do together this month that we haven’t done in a while?"

   • This encourages exploration of shared interests and helps you reconnect.

5. "What’s one thing you appreciate about me that I might not know?"

   • Imagine if you suddenly lost your spouse... what would you wish you had told them?

Too often, moms often feel like they're raising their kids alone, and dad's feel unappreciated for working all day and bringing home the bacon.  (Or maybe both parents are working full time) There's little time for their relationship building. But the good news is, there are simple things you can do that make both of you feel loved and appreciated.

12 Simple Ways to Enrich Your Marriage: these go both ways

1. Daily Affirmations: Leave a sticky note on the bathroom mirror with a compliment.

2. Surprise Date Nights: Book a babysitter and surprise her with dinner at her favorite restaurant.

3. Acts of Service: Clean the house while she’s out to surprise her when she returns.

4. Quality Time Together: Schedule a weekly "coffee date" at home after the kids go to bed.

5. Thoughtful Gifts: Pick up her favorite treat when you’re out running errands.

6. Regular Check-Ins: Ask her how her day was and really listen to her response.

7. Compliments: Tell her how much you appreciate her parenting style.

8. Encouragement: Encourage her to take time for herself and pursue her passions.

9. Help with Kids: Offer to take the kids to the park so she can have some alone time.

10. Communicate: Schedule a weekly "check-in" to discuss how you’re both feeling.

11. Pray Together: Set aside time each week to pray together as a couple.

12. Plan a Getaway: Book a weekend trip to a nearby city or resort.

    My 47th wedding anniversary is coming up in June.  We've been lucky, our parents were great role models, we've always done things together and taken the time to talk about life, kids, work, and what we dream about.  I hope you've found something that helps you and your spouse... grow your love and keep that connection that first attracted you.

Connie Durham

www.TheExtraordinaryMarriage.com

Podcast - Speaker - Private Relationship Coach 

Atlanta, GA Suburbs