Breaking the Blame Cycle: Your Path to an Extraordinary Marriage

Basically, we hide from responsibility!  Nobody wants to say they are the cause for a failed relationship.  Life is a journey. 

Sometimes you don't even except that you are causing most of the hurt in your family, or more than likely...

if you are reading this, you are the one being hurt and don't know how to change that.

Parents who can't get along, pass that worry, fear and anxiety to their kids. 

How do you uncover a healthy relationship... when you don't know how?

Find Help!  A Pastor, mentor, friend, who is capable of looking at both sides, and be honest with you.  Listen to Empowered Couples, Stop Reacting, Start Loving Intentionally  It's #1 in a series of 5 podcast episodes by "The Extraordinary Marriage" meant to assist you in letting go of what's not working in your marriage, and guide you in embracing your personal power and finding the answers you need, to live peacefully in your own home.

Blame is in the instigator and in how we react to it.

Think... could I be pushing my spouses' buttons when they've just gotten home from work and are at their lowest energy of the day?

Could I be expecting too much from them?  I'm I a perfectionist?

Do I have a load of backage from my past I need to work through?

Do they?

Does my spouse fly off the handle, way to easy?

ReDISCOVER your Spouse!

What could my spouse and I do together... that we both like... just to have FUN together?

What if... I count all the good things about my spouse... and give appreciation?

We get caught up in the wear and tear of everyday life, forgetting to focus on what we want, what we like, and deciding to learn and grow... figure it out.

Stop.  Take a breath.  Figure it out.

Think.

Try giving 100%... expecting 0... from your spouse.  You won't be disappointed. 

Connie

The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast