HABITS... That GROW Your LOVE

Taking out the trash when it's full is a great habit because it keeps your kitchen from stinking up your house!  There are habits you use at work like, being on time, following through with responsibilities, and doing first things... 1st each day.  Your Habits will predict your future.  Great habits build repour, trust, and integrity with those around you.

So why don't we think about our habits with our spouse?

Many times, our behavior depends on our mood, emotions, and what's going on with the kids and work.  Are we getting enough sleep or is our schedule stressing us out!

Some people are patient and easy going while others become tense and impatient causing them to be critical or explosive.  Which one are you?

You see... if you are critical or explosive, it's like a daily badgering to your spouse.

You see... if you are on the receiving end, the air is literally sucked out of life... each and every day.

Here's the thing... more than likely...

You don't realize how your behavior effects those around you.  How about we focus on the positive, because we all have good qualities and ones that challenge us.  Here's a list of qualities that will grow more love in your marriage.

#1 - Sit down a few hours a week and talk about what's going on with each of you.  Listen as much as you talk.  Giving full attention to your spouse.

#2 - Be polite, just like you are with other people outside your home.  That means patience, please and thank you, and even... can I help you with that.

#3 - Show appreciation to one another.  Stop taking each other for granted.  You're a team and your contributions count!  Think about what all it takes to run a successful home.  Money, Bill paying, Food to eat, Constant cleaning up, Parenting, Taking care of the kids, Yard care, and the list goes on and on.

#4 - Collaborate, discuss and work together.  This builds unity and respect.  Listen to the opinion of your spouse.  This shows how you value one another.

#5 - Have some FUN together.  Remember what brought you together.  Do more of that!

Life has a way of pivoting with each choice we make.  We don't even realize it at the time... but becoming aware of your behavior and your choices, puts you in charge and enables new HABITS in your Marriage that GROW MORE LOVE!

Get the FREE "Chemistry of Lasting Love" audio, assessment and guide, and find the top 5 things that build repour, love, and trust with each of you. 

Feeling alone?  Many couples literally speak different languages, unaware of how their behavior effects the longevity and happiness of their relationship.

It doesn't have to be that way.  Take Action Today.

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I'm Connie Durham, and Happy Couples = Happier Kids!

You can have a Blessed Life, begin now.

Atlanta, GA

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