Marriage can be ScArY

You never want to think about your marriage as SCARY... but sometimes you get something after the knot is tied... that you never imagined! 

It might be moodiness, outburst of anger, constant criticism, overspending, you might feel neglected and you're thinking, IS THIS WHAT MY WHOLE LIFE IS GOING TO LOOK LIKE?

We all put our best self forward when we're dating, but living together can bring out the worst in people.  There are many reasons you couldn't see this in the first place and you're thinking, why is this happening?

Well, it's not that everyone changes on purpose but now you're together even more than before.  Here are some the causes of a ScArY Marriage.

• You and your spouse are opposites
• ScAry emotions and trouble from the past are now evident 
• Your upbringing & values are different
• There's a lack of respect, thoughtfulness, & kindness...because it wasn't learned 

What can you do?

• I believe Christianity is your first stop... God's help... Prayer 
• I believe learning about the differences of Introverts & Extroverts brings solutions
• I believe in leaning into each other with all your strengths and shortcomings
• I believe in learning HOW to respond to disagreements
• I believe in holding on to your sanity, hope, and confidence

I believe there is hope IF you don't wait until it's TOO late!

Counselors are expensive and it takes months to figure it out.  I have a FREE podcast where you will find answers... but even more that that... I have an OnDemand Workshop, you can purchase for 1/2 the cost of one counseling session that WILL HELP you begin to identify the problems. 

Why not take this seemingly small but actually BIG first step?

This workshop is worth 10 counseling sessions. 

You begin this by yourself... your understanding the concepts taught, will begin the process of understanding your spouse and getting along better. 

But... it's not a sprint... it's a journey.  Don't wait 10 years, 40 years, or until you split up to figure it out.

I am a married person just like you, who's been married 46 years and in this 3rd season of life, have been given a passion for healing relationships by turning on the light... when it comes to understanding your spouse.  What you learn in my workshop will also carry over to understanding your kids, friends, people at work, your boss.  I promise and you can listen to it over and over... even share it with your spouse.

I often wonder, why we didn't learn this in school along with our ABC's.

ReDISCover Your Spouse is learning your ABC's in how to handle people, build relationships, and make it past the hard stuff.  

Connie Durham

Atlanta, GA Suburbs

Relationship Coach

The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast

Grow Together, Laugh Together, Love Forever

Yes, it is possible!