You cannot change what happens to you but YOU CAN change your Attitude.  Your attitude good or bad effects your work, relationships and mental energy. 

Even the most professional business person may hate to speak in public.  You can only truly focus on one thing at a time.....so see if you can find One, that will help you this week.  

Do you find yourself always telling people what to do and how to do it, or do you connect by asking questions and allowing them to be included in decision making?  Directing or Connecting makes the difference in your influence with others.