The Extraordinary Marriage
Learning Personalities for More Harmony in Marriage

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Most of us express ourselves in a kind, thoughtful way in public... Why not do that at home.  Families that treat one another as special... endure.  www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/5NEEDS   
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Enhancing Family Dynamics: Communication, Positivity, and Understanding

Enhancing Family Dynamics: Communication, Positivity, and Understanding

In today's fast-paced world, maintaining a harmonious family environment can be challenging. However, focusing on effective communication, positive reinforcement, and understanding individual differences can significantly enhance family dynamics. Hi, I'm Connie Durham Host of The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast where you'll find ways to enhance and grow your relationship with your spouse.  The Effort Will Be Worth it!

Understanding Communication Styles

  • Different Communication Needs: Recognize that everyone communicates differently. Some family members may be more direct, while others are indirect. Understanding these differences is crucial for effective communication.

  • Listening vs. Talking: Balance is key. Encourage family members who talk a lot to listen more, and those who are quiet to express themselves.

The Power of Positivity

  • Positive Reinforcement: Shift from negative to positive statemen

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Blended Families: Tips for Harmony and Understanding

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Navigating the Challenges of Blended Families

Blended families, where two separate families merge into one, present unique challenges and opportunities. Understanding and addressing these challenges is crucial for creating a harmonious and loving home environment. Here are some key strategies to help navigate the complexities of blended family life.

Understanding Blended Family Dynamics

  • Challenges Faced by Children: Children in blended families often deal with the loss of a parent and the need for love and acceptance. They may struggle with feelings of division and competition among siblings.

  • Importance of Communication: Open and respectful communication is vital. It helps family members express their feelings and understand each other's perspectives.

Key Strategies for Success

  1. Create an Open Environment:

    • Encourage children to express their feelings and listen actively to them. This shows that you care and helps build trust.

  2. Respect and Appreciation:...

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When Life Throws a Curveball: All Hands-on Deck to Navigate Life Events with HUMOR

When Life Throws a Curveball:

All Hands-on Deck to Navigate Life Events with HUMOR

 

Ever been to DISNEY… hot day… small children? Two of our kids were still small enough to take naps and you know there are no naps to be taken at an amusement park! My husband had already been walking around with a sleeping 2-year-old in his arms and a 4-year-old on his back. We made sure they were fed, and we rode the wet rides to keep everybody cool, but when afternoon came… we found a cool place to let them rest, the Presidents Hall. But as we got inside… our little ones were going down. Initially, it was just whining. We tried to explain that soon we’d be sitting down for the show but little people who are hot and exhausted fall into their emotions and I could see, there was little chance of comforting them.


At first it was small but as the whine got louder, more like crying, all three kids joined in. I do not like to cause a scene or draw attention to myself. Suddenly as I became extremely unc...

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What Do You Need for Family Engagement?

This is #9 of the 10 Needs Every Person had in a relationship.  Find the top 5 of your spouse and you will increase your Romantic Love.  Get the Assessment.  Https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/5NEEDS and LISTEN to The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast #69 - #73 to find all 10. 

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Learned Responses in Marriage & Finding Better Connection

Are you on Spotify or Apple Podcast?  Subscribe and Join me every week for ways make your marriage extraordinary!  www.thextraordinarymarriage.com/podcast   Connie Durham

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1st of 4 Parenting Styles

You will parent according to your personality type... and how you were raised yourself. Watch the entire podcast on YouTube.

The Extraordinary Marriage, Episode 55... "What's your parenting style?" https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcasts/the-extraordinary-marriage/episodes/2148877433 

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The Love that Shapes Extraordinary Lives: Parenting With Heart

 
 
Parenting Skills and Ideas Every week in October
 

Parenting with Heart: The Love that Shapes Extraordinary Lives

Parenting is a delicate dance between love and discipline, a challenging yet rewarding role that shapes the lives of our children and molds the future. It’s a job that doesn’t come with a manual, but rather, it’s filled with moments of trial and triumph that tug at your heartstrings and teach invaluable lessons along the way.

The Dance of Love and Discipline

In my journey as a parent, I learned that love is the foundation upon which discipline is built. Because I parented with love, I could also discipline with love. This simple truth came alive in the form of counting to three — a cue that allowed my kids to know I meant business and encouraged them to make the right choice quickly. ...

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